Inspired by the gospel of Jesus Christ, rooted in the spirituality of St. Ignatius, Loyola House of Retreats provides a sacred setting for retreats and programs of growth and development for people in the contemporary Church and society.

Loyola House of Retreats is staffed by Jesuit priests and religious women and is located on 30 acres of beautiful lawns, gardens and woodland in a quiet section of Morristown, New Jersey. It is in this peaceful atmosphere that thousands of retreatants have paused to search, ask and wonder since 1927. All are invited to come here to do the same - to sense God’s presence in a fresh and contemplative way.
A Message from the Director of Spiritual Programs
Dear Visitor or Loyola Retreatant,
Lent is upon us. This joyful season, this time to remember, to be re-membered to the Body of Christ in an even more intimate way; this time to let go and to be embraced and to embrace anew.
This joyful season? Yes, because we are given the time and the grace to be drawn more deeply into the love of God that comes to us through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. Ask yourself: to what in the world would you rather be drawn more than to Christ? Listen to the Preface spoken before the Consecration at the First Sunday of Lent: “Each year you (Lord) give us this joyful season….”
Drawn? Jesus says it, “no one can come to me unless drawn by the Father.” (John 6:44) So there’s your Lenten prayer: “Father, draw me to your Son.” Not bad, actually very good, quite simple, broad and deep as the love of God which is abundantly and continually poured out upon and within us. Don’t try to grasp this mystery just let it happen and reflect on it. Who can grasp love anyway? It is the wonderful mystery of the universe that we love, and are loved by one another. In Christ, we believe (and this belief comes to knowledge in the deepest sense of the word) that this love has its root in the love of God for all of us. God first loves us, we respond with joy. That’s what draws us to be lovers (active sense of the word). We have been loved first (passive, receptive sense of the word, rather, Word). And there’s your definition of spirituality: our response to God who first loved us. We co-operate with God’s drawing us to Jesus Christ. We come to a renewed understanding that we are partners in this great universal mystery of Love; that’s why this is called the joyful season of Lent. Let Paul say it for all of us: “Yet I live, no longer I, but Christ lives in me;…the Son of God who has loved me and given Himself up for me.” (Galatians 2:20) Let me coin a theological theorem: If it isn’t joyful; it isn’t Lent.
Now we connect this season with prayer, almsgiving and fasting. Over the years, I think, at least in my case, fasting has been the emphasis. It shouldn’t be. We are given the opportunity to renew our prayer as well. Let’s take the remembering thing about Lent. How about simply remembering that Jesus Christ is the Vine and we are the branches? How about simply contemplating that image, and allowing the “divine sap” that flows through that image found in God’s Word (John 15) to renew me, quietly, passively. I am not doing anything here; I simply allow God to do in me what the Word says. (See Lenten Contemplation on the web site). Check out Isaiah 55 on the effectiveness of God’s Word. Don’t be afraid; let God be awesome, and loving.
And then there’s almsgiving. We are made clean by listening to the Word of God (John 15:3) and by almsgiving (Luke 11:41). I’ll leave that up to you to decide but you can remember this: God loves a cheerful giver (2 Corinthians 9:7). So, if you give, do it quietly (Matthew 6:3), and be cheerful about it.
Okay let’s get to the fasting. I have a sweet tooth, so I continue to eat sweets during Lent. Wait, shouldn’t I be giving up sweets? I like them! No, not necessarily because there are more important things. Here’s what I started about five years ago as my Lenten fast: I started driving like a sane man on the highway. I tried to observe the speed limit. I asked God to help me not to get angry or upset when someone got ahead of me, or beat me through a four-way stop sign, or was too close on my tail. As a matter of fact, if I got to a four-way stop sign even slightly ahead of someone, I waited, waved them on through. Now I get a nice wave back, instead of that other unspeakable (but-you-know-what-I- mean) sign that I used to get which made the signaler and the signalee very angry. In other words, this “highway fast” (there’s an irony of linguistic juxtaposition) is my way of cutting down on the anger in the world. May seem trite but ask yourself if there’s anger out there on our highways. Fill in the blank: The U.S. is full of Road ______. Now, instead of waiting for Easter so that I can eat my chocolate after forty days of fasting, what I begin in Lent continues through the year and gets reemphasized every year at Lent until my God-given Christian life comes out through my actions on the highway. And then in other more significant ways, for I can transfer grace given and lessons learned about anger and competition through my “highway fast” to other spheres of my life.
I hope to see you at Loyola. This is God’s house of prayer where people have been drawn for more than 82 years to Christ through God’s loving, flaming, Holy Spirit. This is God’s house of prayer which is here purely on the basis of the generosity of our friends and benefactors who give their hard earned bread to support the offering of Word and Bread that happens here every day. This is God’s house of prayer were anger and competition cease and where one lives the connection to the Divine sap-giving Vine, remembering God’s graciousness and love, and being re-membered to God’s Body. Our arms are open for you as are Christ’s on the cross. “Come to me,” he says; “Let the Father draw you,” he lovingly urges us. “Let me give you rest in this joyful season of Lent.”
Final word; if you see me at a stop sign, give me a wave, as I wave you through. Christ’s Peace!
Sincerely in Christ
Rev. Charles L. Moutenot, S.J.
Director of Spiritual Programs
 
Executive Director’s Welcome
I’d like to invite you to learn more about the varied spiritual direction offerings which are available to you here at Loyola. Whether using this website or calling or visiting us, please prayerfully consider enhancing your spiritual journey by availing yourself of Ignatian Spirituality, here in beautiful Morristown, NJ. Reviewing our Mission Statement and retreat offerings are a good start, especially if you have not been here before.
Twenty Six years ago my brother Paul invited me to come to Loyola House of Retreats for a weekend retreat, where he said "you can get some well needed rest and some good food, and be inspired by the Jesuits". Well, he’s my big brother and never gave me bad advice before, so after some prodding - 2 years worth - I finally overcame my apprehensions. This last March, I made my 23rd Annual Weekend Retreat.
Without hesitation, Loyola has provided me with one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. The spiritual nourishment received from many brilliant and devoted Jesuits, has directly bridged me over many of my life’s challenges. As a result, I am much more appreciative of the many blessings in my life - my expanding wonderful family, many enriching relationships and many opportunities to utilize my training and experience for the Proclamation of the Word. In short, I communicate with and thank God everyday.
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This October will mark the end of three years for me as a fulltime employee of Loyola. In this time our newly appointed team has accomplished much for the physical preservation of Loyola, as well as for the ongoing financial stability for future generations coming to Loyola. Renee Owens, our newly appointed Director of Administration, has energized our Parish Outreach Program and this website, and continues to build awareness and relationships with new and long standing retreatants and associations. Teresa Elko, our Controller, has made good progress in managing our vendors, paying bills in a timely manner and looking for opportunities to better control costs. Our kitchen, housekeeping and maintenance staffs are keenly focused - as a team - to make your stay at Loyola as nourishing, clean, comfortable and as enjoyable as possible.
"Enriching - body / mind/ and soul", "Peaceful, rewarding and stimulating" and "Touched by God! Restorative". These are but a sample of testimonials received from our retreatants each weekend. Our long term retreatants are intimately aware of these sentiments. Since 1927 some 92 individuals have made over 50 weekend retreats at Loyola, and hundreds of thousands have come here to rest and pray away from the busy outside world.
Would you benefit from such an event in your life? Would you consider investing the time to pursue this unique opportunity? With "yes" answers, please don’t hesitate in perusing this website or contacting Renee Owens or me to pursue moving more deeply into the gift of your faith. God Bless you and your families.
Joseph J Albarella,
Executive Director, President
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